Thinking of You! / Dianne White/Mom Of Angel Nicholas Read >>
Thinking of You! / Dianne White/Mom Of Angel Nicholas
WE'RE ALIKE, YOU AND I
We're alike, you and I. We've never met Our faces would be those of strangers if we met We would barely perceive the other's presence If we passed on our walk through the mists We're unknown to each other Until the terrible words have been spoken "MY CHILD DIED" We're alike, you and I We measure time in seconds and eternities We try to go forward to yesterday Tomorrows are for the whole people, And we are incomplete now The tears after a time turn inward To become invisible to all save you and me Our souls are rumpled from wrestling with demons. And doubts and unanswerable prayers. "GIVE ME BACK MY CHILD" We're alike, you and I. The tears that run down your face are my tears And the wound in your soul is my pain too. We need time, but time is our enemy For it carries us farther and farther From our lost child And we cry out; "HELP ME" We're alike, you and I. And we need each other Don't turn away, but give me your hand And for a time we can cease to be strangers And become what we truly are, A family closer than blood. United by a bond that was forced upon us--- But a bond that can make us stronger, Still wounded and not to sure, But stronger for our sorrows are shared. "WE NEED NOT WALK ALONE" written by Judy Dickey
Happy Birthday sweet love. I can't believe that you would have been 4 years old today. We probably would have had your party yesterday. I wonder what presents you would have asked for.
I miss you everyday Vanessa. Your face is so clear in my mind. I remember the little noises you made when you were nursing. I remember the way I felt when you looked up at me.... like I was looking down at an angel. I love you. I miss you.
We are connected, My child and I, by An invisible cord Not seen by the eye.
It's not like the cord That connects us 'til birth This cord can't been seen By any on Earth.
This cord does it's work Right from the start. It binds us together Attached to my heart.
I know that it's there Though no one can see The invisible cord From my child to me.
The strength of this cord Is hard to describe. It can't be destroyed It can't be denied.
It's stronger than any cord Man could create It withstands the test Can hold any weight.
And though you are gone, Though you're not here with me, The cord is still there But no one can see.
It pulls at my heart I am bruised... I am sore, But this cord is my lifeline As never before.
I am thankful that God Connects us this way A mother and child Death can't take it away!
happy hirthday sweet angel / Selma Flynn Bobbo.memory-of.com Close
Happy 4th Birthday "Nessa / Aunt Linda (Aunt)Read >>
Happy 4th Birthday "Nessa / Aunt Linda (Aunt)
Hi Sweetheart Today is your 4th birthday. I wish you were here and I could hold you and play with you. Your big sister Kaelyn talks about you all the time when she comes to my house. We all miss you so much and we love you deeply. I wonder what you would look like today, I'm sure a mix of both of your sisters. You're so precious little one, I miss you and I love you. Happy 4th Birthday Vanessa. I hope you play with angels today. Forever Love, Aunt Linda Close
My thoughts are with you / Vani Verma (None, except sharing her name )Read >>
My thoughts are with you / Vani Verma (None, except sharing her name )
I have come across this story by chance on the internet...Wha you wrote moved me to tears...I am so sorry at what happened to you, and yet the way you describe it is so strong. Your little girls really was an angel, and she is watching over your whole family now. I think it is important to remember every child, and it is very good that you tell and show your ther children what child she was... I believe as well that the mothers days present was sent by her... Bon courage we would say in French, meaning be strong... Close
You are in my prayers... / Mélanie Blanchard Read >>
You are in my prayers... / Mélanie Blanchard
I don't know you, and you don't know me, but your story has touched me beyond everything I've ever heard or seen... My heart goes to you in so much more ways than one... You are forever in my prayers, you and your little angel...
As I read Vanessa's story on your website, tears came to my eyes and rolled down my cheeks... I can't even begin to describe how impressed I was by your little girl's strength and determination, by how she held on and defied every predictions. Her courage is an example to me and I hope that one day I can be as strong as she was... The way she fought with all her will really amazed me, and saddened me all the same because the loss of such a brave little being is really a shame... But then again, she must be one of the most perfect angels in Heaven... I have no doubt God is taking great care of her, and that she is watching over you from her special place at His side...
I am only 18 myself, but it doesn't mean I can't understand what you must've been through... I was lucky enough to never have such tragedies in my own life, but I know it happens and my heart goes to each and every last person who has to live through it... I put you and Vanessa in my prayers, and I will always remember her story. Even though I never knew her, although I wish I could have, and even though I only saw her in pictures, she taught me something very important, and I am not about to forget that...
I hope you and your family are doing well. I am sure Vanessa is always in your thoughts despite her absence, and that you will not forget her as long as you live... Let me say that learning her story was an honor, and that you've found in me another person who will remember Vanessa...
I have read your story and i know how painful it can be to lose a baby, she's here somewhere looking at you she knows how much you're missing her, your daughter know that you love her for she's watching you right now she will be in heaven for she died innocent in this world, may God bless you, he does everything for a reason
You'll be in my prayers / Monica Isham (None)
I know it has almost been four years since the passing of your little angel, but i just know that it still gets to you everyday that you wake up without her. I just want to let the whole family to know that you are in my prayers. Vanessa is in a much better place than this twisted world, but even that don't make your loss seem any more insignificant. She and your family will always be in my heart and with my church. God Bless You!! Close
Baby Basil / Fiona Cloete
As I type this message to you and your wonderful family I am looking at a photo of my darling son who was taken away from us when he was 6 months old. He died suddenly one night from Cot Death (SIDS) and I knew when I woke up that he was gone without even looking at the cot at the end of my bed. I know how you feel when some days every single fibre of my being screams out for my child. To have him and hold him and smell his little neck. He has been gone for 11 years and it still feels sometimes like it was yesterday. The screams that I hear in my head are my own. The truth is that no one can understand what a mother feels when she loses her child. People hid thier babies from me, in a way of trying not to upset me I guess. So many strange things happened but they were all part of something greater. I still don't understand what it was all about and I still feel like there is a veil over my face and I battle to see through it some days. You are all so brave and I wanted you to know that. - Alizarin Crimson - The Loom/ Hair care family. Close
my heart goes out to you / Rose Tainui (just passing threw )Read >>
my heart goes out to you / Rose Tainui (just passing threw )
i read your story about your darling daughter and it almost had me in tears please no that my love and thoughts go out to you all. take comfort in knowing that god had bigger plans for your darling angel and in saying that, the strengh and courage she showed the world for that short time gives us all hope that if she could do it then maybe the world has a chance.and again im so sorry for your loss. rosemarie tainui hokitka new zealand..... Close
Vanessa/ Linda
You were truly blessed......if even for a short moment. Vanessa will live on in your lives and the lives of others. God Bless- Linda Close
My condolences... / Sofia Sammarco (none)
My name is Sofia Sammarco and I am 15 years old. I was surfing the internet and I came across theis site. I would just like to say I am very sorry for your loss. Vanessa was a beautiful little girl. Her life story touched me deeply and had me in tears. I think you are all wonderfully brave people and I wish you the very best of luck for the future.
ella esta en el cielo / Jose Rubina (ninguna)Read >>
ella esta en el cielo / Jose Rubina (ninguna)
Encontré de casualidad esta web. Lamento mucho, pero estoy seguro de que su bebita Vanessa es ahora un angelito que les ilumina desde el cielo.